HOW IT ALL BEGAN

I have always been fixated on trying to figure out why people are not willing to work things out at home with their "significant others." I also have found myself intrigued at the gender roles when it comes to infidelities ina relationship. Where as men are looked at as dogs and women are looked at as whores unless she cries out that he cheated first, then she is the victim. Whether he "cheated" or not, all a woman has to do is cry he did so first and she could bed anyone and still be the victim. Or the other favorite excuse on how he doesnt spend time anymore. That's always funny to hear but far from true.
My story is simple, I am a 30 something year old male that has been experienced in assisting others in their relationships for many years. I have bed over 500 women in my life and many of them were in some form of relationship, whether married, engaged, etc...
I do not use women for sex but teach them about their sex, I show people what is missing at home nd make great friends along the way. Of course these women are cheating on their spouses and it is a win/win situation for all. I will explain as time goes by.
Of course psychologically many will wonder why des someone bed so many women, and I could give you dozens of answers to the question. Then others will try to wonder what traumatized me to be this way. Thats funny, I am a normal male who is in tuned with self and has found true identity within self. What morally work for one may not necessarily work for another. I offer services tht are flawless, and for the record sex is NOT the service. I counsel people, I give hope to those that have been without hope. I help people realize they have what it takes to find happiness, despite whatever shortcomings they believe they have.
This site will be used to tell many of my adventures with many different women and in hopes you all can learn something about yourselves, your feedback is welcome if you dare. lol.
Sometimes relationships can take a toll and sex becomes more habitual than passionate, it becomes more part of s role than the physical expression of love and lust, let me tell you all a quick story many of you can relate to.
I met this girl which we will name "G" for the sake of confidentiality. Me and G met at the Puerto Rican day parade in NY (s true breeding ground for sexual encounters and to meet others). G was with her firends and I was with a few of mine, of course I had to make her friends accept me as well, in hopes to get closer to G. The friends are a powerful tool because when they are attracted to a man, they will say anything in their power to make sure the friend does not have her way with this male. One of the first lines they say are "Oh, be careful, he looks like a player." That is classical "I wish I had him first" line. In any event, me and G went our seperate ways and didnt hook up until some time after because of my hectic schedule with my job, my appointments and my involvement with many women at the time. I can remember the phone call that led to our meeting. She appeared in need of a male friend and I sensed it with her choice of words. She wanted to see me for lunch and I accepted, so during my lunch break me and G had a fabulous conversation, where she confessed to me she has been with her man for 10 years but havent been happy for about 4 years. I told her I do not plan to be his replacement but I hope to add happiness to her life, she insisted she thought I could. I knew she has been unfaithful before, although she told me I was the first man she cheated on her man with.
After lunch I resumed to work and as I got there no more than five minutes later G called me to tell me how much of a great time we had. Of course it is hard for me to accept certain things because these are typical lines that I have used on women. I did sense a tone of sincerity with G and a part of me wanted to run down and hug her to tell her things would be better for her and him. I knew I couldnt because it would have scared her off. The very next day we met up and went straight to my place and started to watch a movie. During the movie G began to perform oral sex on me and I must admit, it was the single most phenomenal oral sex performed. I literally lost my breath on many occasions and thught I would die a happy man. lol
From oral sex on the sofa we took it to the bedroom. Needless to say it was a good time for us both.
Me and G became really good friends during our 7 month sexual affair. I always coached her about things to do with her man and never once violated his time with her or imposed with any suspecting phone calls. I insisted from day one that their sex life can never change, no matter what Men associate lack of sex with cheating. There was no need for this man to know his wife was with me during his work hours. We conviently had different work hours. She at first could not imagine having that much sex with both him and I at different times during the day, weeks, etc.. but she was willing to comply because she felt she needed to experience that missing factor in her life.
G really got to know herself while she was with me, I listened intently when she spoke and listened even closer when she didnt. She often expressed how she missed how things were at home and was ready to move on. I informed her that being with me was an illusion and not a tool to move on. I was indeed a tool to fix what was missing at home. G grew to understand and really started to venture into her self to take risks and to be more vocal and to do her part to make her man happy.
One day me and G were taking a walk through the park and we just couldnt keep our hands off one another, she was such a lovely sexual beast. In her newfound self she decided to surprisingly perform oral sex n the middle of the park on me in front of about 50 people. Now I was shocked at how she decided to just take this risk, being that her man worked a mere 4 blocks away. Two people walkd out the park, and the remaining couples and singles remained with smiles gued to their faces, and of course glued to my face as well. lol
Time passed us by and it was time to move on because things have grown incredibly well at home for G. Im happy to say that her and her man have a baby now and are planning to finally get married after so many years together. Me and G call each other often but do not engage in any form of sexual intercourse. We have a love for each other that is true and our friendship is concrete.
Something for you all to think about...
When things are rocky at home do not use the blame game but analyze what role do you play ? Also verbalize your intent, verbalize your feelings and when you can both sit down and do not begin to be accusatory, things show they have hope. Men, do not use your macho as a form of defense. Love your woman unconditionally and always remain honest. If you fel things are off, verbalize them without blaming but leave it open to discussion for both views to count. Women, do not challenge your man's manhood. Men are fools about their macho selves. If sex is not great or what it used to be or just needs some fixing, do not throw it at him but make suggestions about trying something you heard about or something simple like that. Honor one another alwas.